Date Like It Matters
Attraction, Discernment, Boundaries, and Choosing Wisely
By Will Bourne · Bourne Again Media LLC
Date Like It Matters develops discernment when another person actually has the reader’s attention.
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Date Like It Matters develops discernment when another person actually has the reader’s attention. Attraction can be enjoyed, intentions can remain proportionate, and learning can change the decision. The book examines ordinary character, compatibility, health and danger, bodily and emotional boundaries, digital conduct, faith, community, dating while parenting, honest endings, and the movement toward covenant preparation. Jesus Christ remains central. Marriage is not a reward for maturity, and unmarried people are not incomplete. The book invites faithful choices that honor dignity, consent, privacy, responsibility, and supported agency. It distinguishes forgiveness from trust and renewed access, and keeps responsibility for harm attached to the person who chose it.
Book details and library reference
Family Formation, Volume 3 of 10. It also belongs to the Family Formation pathway.
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Why this book exists
Date Like It Matters develops discernment when another person actually has the reader’s attention. Attraction can be enjoyed, intentions can remain proportionate, and learning can change the decision.
Who it may help
This book may help readers carrying questions about family formation, especially those looking for a thoughtful, Christ-centered way to connect belief with lived formation.
Where it belongs
Family Formation, Volume 3 of 10. It also belongs to the Family Formation pathway.
Questions this book helps you face
- What question holds this book together?
- What does intentional does not have to mean intense mean in practice?
- Does physical attraction matter?
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Date Like It Matters develops discernment when another person actually has the reader’s attention. Attraction can be enjoyed, intentions can remain proportionate, and learning can change the decision. The book examines ordinary character, compatibility, health and danger, bodily and emotional boundaries, digital conduct, faith, community, dating while parenting, honest endings, and the movement toward covenant preparation.
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